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Feb 17, 2023

The Reality of Neurodivergence: Knees Don’t Lie

Neurotypicality is as simple as stairs.

The Reality of Neurodivergence: Knees Don’t Lie

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2d ago

The Easiest Habit to Start (Again).

Journaling doesn’t replace exercise or meditation — but it’s a lot more friendly.

One of my older journals — the “lines” were actually tiny text of “The Picture of Dorian Gray.”

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5d ago

I Kept Failing at Minimalism and Feeling Guilty About Clutter

Then I figured out I was trying to solve the wrong problem.

the oasis of attention that resulted in this article.

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Jun 29

How to Fix Sex Education for Everyone

Whatever age, orientation, or gender, there’s really only one thing that needs to be taught.

An Engraving from a Victorian edition of Tristram Shandy

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Jun 22

“Why Would It Be Hard to Want to Want What You Want?”

Ads, Masking, and Socialization, Oh My!

“Why Would It Be Hard to Want to Want What You Want?”

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Jun 17

Six Transitions That Help When I Get Stuck

It’s basically duct tape for when your brain blows a gasket.

Vintage woodcut licensed via Century Library

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Jun 9

Is It Really Collecting Hobbies? Or Is It Darker Than That?

How a philosopher I never read might have skewered my psyche

Image by the author, of the author’s bookshelf. Bonus points if you can actually identify how many hobbies/projects/careers are represented in these 8 shelves…

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May 11

Too Many Ideas Keeping You Awake at Night? Build an Idearium.

Creating a place for ideas to live until you’re ready for them.

“Sure, why not? What’s the worst that could happen?” (Illustration by the author, pencil/sharpie/artist pen)

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May 3

ASMR Working Memory Failure

A Podcast recorded live on Friday, May 1st, 2026

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Apr 30

How My Girlfriend Solved My Biggest Problem with a Hybrid Calendar

Entirely simple, but I completely missed it.

Real-time by the Author — iCal and PocketMod

Gray Miller

Gray Miller

Gray is a former Marine dancer grandpa visualist who writes to help adults figure out what they want to be when they grow up.

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