Three Useful Lists You Should Make Immediately

The Joy of Finding a Place for the Things in Your Brain

Gray Miller
6 min readApr 4, 2024
Image by the author
Image by the author

“We like lists because we don’t want to die.” — Umberto Eco in Spiegel International

The cited article goes into a whole lot of psychological and cultural reasons lists are so ubiquitous, but I think Mr. Eco pretty much nailed it, though I think it’s not really death as in the grim reaper.

I think it’s a different kind of death: irrelevance. Not mattering to anyone or anything. If you have a list, you have things to do, or things which you possess, or things you have noticed, all of which reinforce your connection with the world.

A list gives us a concrete handle on our small part of the chaos of infinity, giving the illusion of manageability to the endless unknowable never-ending stream of information and events in the world.

What makes a list effective?

Here a list of things on my shelf:

  • Araki book
  • Glass tray
  • Non-reading glasses
  • Cleaning cloth
  • iPhone tripod

Now that you’ve read it, you might have some image in your mind of what this looks like.

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Gray Miller

Gray is a former Marine dancer grandpa visualist who writes to help adults figure out what they want to be when they grow up.